1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's
laps no matter the situation including uncles.
2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child
once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them
or yourself.
3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as
'my wife' or 'my husband'
4. Whenever your child goes out to play with
friends make sure you look for a way to find out
what kind of play they do, because young people
now sexually abuse themselves.
5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or
she is not comfortable with and also be
observant if your child becomes too fond of a
particular adult.
6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes
withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of
questions from your child.
7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the
right values of sex . If you don't, the society will
teach them the wrong values.
8: It is always advisable you go through any new
Material like cartoons you just bought for them
before they start seeing it themselves.
9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your
cable networks and advice your friends
especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.
10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their
private parts properly and warn them never to
allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from
home and with you).
11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think
could threaten the sanity of your child (this
includes music, movies and even friends and
families).
12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of
standing out of the
crowd.
13: Once your child complains about a particular
person, don't keep quiet about it.
Take up the case and show them you can defend
them.
Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-
be.
and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A
LIFETIME"
